RHYTHMS | PRAYER, PRACTICE, PLACE

Vol 4. Issue 10


Friends,

In this issue, we focus on delight. The Prayer is for Joy That Flickers, by Josi Larson, a trusted guide and friend who embodies life-giving joyThe Practice of a Life-Giving List is from the author and founder of Capable Life, Steve Cuss. And Steam Espresso, Coffee Shop established with the values of beauty and hospitality by brothers Hani and Zahi Yaafouri, is a sacred Place

Our hope is that these rhythms of delight inspire you to look for beauty and joy in your neighbors and your neighborhood.

All blessings. 

Jared Mackey

PRAYER | JOY THAT FLICKERS

By Josi Larson


“Remain vigilant to welcome secretly the sources of divine murmuring. Don’t go hurriedly…Everything comes to meet you. The Creation throbs with God. Everything sings and shouts with joy!”
— St. Francis

Dear Holy Flame,
If ‘Hope is the thing with feathers’, (thank you, Emily Dickinson) 
Then Joy is the thing that flickers! 

When have we felt that flicker? 
Snuggled up deep in a lap, 
Looking at the ocean for the first time, 
Smelling bread baking in the oven, 
Tasting a really good pasta dish, 
Or hearing your baby’s laugh! 

Thank you for how You made our senses fire up with joy. 
That flare of joy that perhaps stops your heart for a beat or two. 

Joy can flicker, flame, or even burn. 
Help us sense that warming of joy 
That melts into a smile. 
May we notice when our hearts are burning 
Like the two on the road home to Emmaus. 
Joy tells us that we can be sure 
That You, Jesus, are near. 

May we learn to sit under Your long loving gaze 
Enjoying the warmth of Your Presence. 
For we know that ‘In Your Presence is fullness of joy.’ (Ps. 16:11) 

Amen and Amen. 

PRACTICE | LIFE-GIVING LIST

By Jared Mackey


Practice

Creating a Life-Giving List | Organize the list in three distinct columns

  1. People: List those who breathe life into you. 

    These are people whose company you genuinely enjoy. Note whether they are local or remote, as connecting with them may require budgeting time or money. 

  2. Places: Identify locations that serve as “thin places.” 
    These are places where connection with God comes easily. These can range from a specific chair in your home to a destination like Assisi, Italy.

  3. Activities: Include both “micro” and “macro” activities. 
    Micro activities might take thirty seconds and cost nothing, such as rubbing a dog’s floppy ears or eating a piece of chocolate. Macro activities might involve a multi-day fishing trip or a silent retreat.

Using a Life-Giving List | Use the list in three specific ways

  1. Reactively: When anxiety hits, our minds often become rigid and lose imagination.
    Having a pre-written list allows us to bypass the need for creativity in moments of stress. We can simply select a micro-activity to shift our focus.

  2. Proactively: Intentionally go on a hunt for God’s goodness each month. 
    Calendar and budget for life-giving experiences. If we do not schedule time for joy and connection, the demands of life will crowd them out.

  3. Worshipfully: The list transforms hobbies into holy ground. 
    As you engage in the activity, intentionally pause to thank God for the gift. Whether tasting chocolate or hiking a mountain, the act becomes a liturgy of gratitude.

A Life-Giving List is a guide to practice delight in the gifts God has given. Nothing is too trivial or too extravagant.
— Steve Cuss

The invitation of Jesus to “love your neighbor” is misaligned if we hear that we should care for our neighbors, friends, family, or coworkers at the expense of caring for ourselves. This unhealthy approach can generate anxiety about our performance rather than abiding as the Beloved. 

Steve Cuss is the founder of Capable Life and a trusted voice on the impact of anxiety on our emotional, mental, and spiritual life. The focus of his writing and work has helped people become more attuned to the reactivity in and around us, “Reactivity displaces our awareness of God, making us feel that everything depends on our self. However, by intentionally placing ourselves in the path of things we love, we open our souls to God’s perfect love.”

We can miss the gifts and blessings God gives for our enjoyment. Steve shares an invaluable perspective on the unhealthy potential within us: “We can view ourselves more as God's employees than as God's children.” He continues, “The early church father Bernard of Clairvaux warns us to ‘not be more generous than God.’ Humans can become canals if we’re not careful: everything that flows in flows out, and we are left empty. God, in contrast, is a reservoir: God always gives out of the overflow and abundance.”  

A practice to cultivate a life of receiving God’s love and loving our neighbors out of the overflow and abundance, is to build a Life-Giving List. What is a Life-Giving List? Steve describes it this way: “A Life-Giving List is a comprehensive inventory of the specific people, places, and activities that encourage you in feeling blessed, human, and fully alive.” A Life-Giving list is a two-part practice: Creating the List and Using the List. 

Steve Cuss is an author and host of the Being Human podcast. He is the founder ofCapable Life and has served in a variety of pastoral roles for 26 years. When Steve is not working, you can find him laughing with his family, knee-deep in a trout stream, or trying a guitar he cannot afford at a local music store.

PLACE | COFFEE SHOP

By Jared Mackey


We are not in the coffee business serving people. We are in the people business serving coffee.
— Howard Schultz

A coffee shop is a sacred place. It is a story of family and community, culture and care. Founded by brothers Hani and Zahi Yaafouri, Steam has created a special place of loyal business and natural beauty.

Hani’s history in coffee began working for Starbucks in his home country of Lebanon. His experience with Starbucks spanned from barista to leadership roles, which provided a unique knowledge about both coffee and business. He moved to Denver in 2006 to join his brother Zahi in master’s degree programs at the University of Denver. Zahi’s background and degrees from DU are in real estate, construction, architecture, and design. Hani’s original plan was to return to the coffee business in Lebanon, but he felt increasingly connected to Colorado. Hani discovered a property on South Pearl Street in 2012, and together the brothers opened Steam in 2013. The complementary spectrum of skills between the two brothers of business, service, and design formed a unique foundation to build upon. 

At the heart of Steam is the embodied practice of hospitality. Hani shares the grounding vision for the business they are in: “Coffee is not just what is in the cup. People come for quality for sure, but this is a place where people connect. It's the place people have their first conversation of the day.” He continues with a compassionate tone, “And for some people, it may be the only conversation. I've always believed business is not a transaction. It’s a relationship.” Hani holds a conviction that good coffee should be accessible to everyone: “We keep the price reasonable for a reason.”

The priority of hospitality is communicated by Hani in manager meetings every Thursday when he reiterates the core values of the business, “We strive to serve great coffee with exceptional hospitality in extraordinary settings.” But the practice of hospitality is demonstrated by Hani as he regularly places himself on the schedule as a barista. His presence emanates hospitality and models to every employee the expectations of service and care. Listening to Hani share about Steam is a brilliant blend of both operational and relational values: "We're opening our home for everyone, every day. We better be ready.” His conviction is clear: “Hospitality is nonnegotiable.” He summarizes Steam’s philosophy with the words he first heard from Howard Schultz when working for Starbucks in Lebanon, “We are not in the coffee business serving people. We are in the people business serving coffee.”  

That heart of hospitality and serving people has made Steam an influential business in the Platt Park neighborhood. It is the motivation for first-time customers to become regulars, and regulars to become friends. “I think we've seen this over the years. People respond positively to the environment we created. And we’ve become an anchor in the neighborhood.” When asked how Steam has cultivated love for the neighborhood, Hani replies with both humility and pride, “We have had regulars purchase a home in the neighborhood so they can begin their day at Steam.”

In 2021, Steam expanded to a second location in a 110-year-old firehouse on Tejon Street. The locations are each embedded in their neighborhood with unique architecture and design. “Two shops feels like the magic formula for us,” Hani shares with joyous sincerity. The two coffee shops provide connections to diverse neighborhoods while creating room for both businesses to continue to grow. The beauty and hospitality that define Steam are present in both locations. Steam is an inspiring place of people and presence. The coffee shop is a sacred place.

Thank you to Hani Yaafouri for his conversation and contribution to this article, and for creating a place of hospitality and beauty together with his brother, Zahi.



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All theology is rooted in geography.

- Eugene Peterson